Long term investment

Hello dear followers, we are back this month with this reflection… And I ask you: HAVE YOU INVESTED IN THE RELATIONSHIP? Day-to-day life is a couple's worst enemy, but if you look at it carefully, you'll see that it's the best investment you can make in the long and short term. Okay, I'll explain.

But first I ask you:

Alone or together?

Different bodies or intimacy?

A bar table and/or seashell (I know, this one is hard to answer, I tend to want both rss)?

Relationships tend to start out of pure PASSION and then due to routine we rationalize the custom/habit of an automatic life. Even though we have A LOT of love, we find ourselves involved daily within a WARM life. Where the touch shivers (but with rancidity), where sex is protocol, the most lively conversation is talking about the aunt who went down to the floor at the family lunch, where bills take over life and don't give a break for connection.

I'm sure your wish is the opposite of that, right?

With that in mind, here are 4 tips for when there is LOVE but SEX is disconnected.

1. COMMUNICATION: There's nowhere to run, connected relationships start with this basic premise, but it's not just talking, it's listening too. Giving suggestions and being open to receiving even if it confronts your “virility”.

It's not about pointing out, it's about ADJUSTING, it's not about being right, it's about being VULNERABLE. Statistics show that couples who undress “their strongholds” and share with affection strengthen the relationship.

Understand now: COMMUNICATION is fundamental! But if this step is not in agreement with you, don't even insist with the others that I will pass it now.

2. NEGOTIATE: A relationship is made between two people, so let's stop confusing INDIVIDUALITY with INTIMITY?

Maintaining your individuality, having your own taste, continuing with your routine (gym, friends, football, etc...) this keeps the flame of desire burning. When we become numb from the other, where and how does desire remain, since desire is a lack?

So be intimate in the relationship, with love, affection, a look that swallows, a hug that makes the world stop. But never, ever let your insecurity destroy the other's individuality and vice versa.

3. TWO WILLING: Yesssss, it's no use investing time and energy where what you get is just “I'm tired!” For a relationship to work, the couple must be aligned in communication and face the truths of the relationship and make adjustments, not as a burden, but as a natural process of two people who want to make things work.

4. EROTIZE: Invest in this point. Relationships without French kissing, without imagination, without seduction, tend to be the biggest failure. A woman needs to feel desired and if you get rid of her taboos, you can be sure she is willing to have pleasure with you, so allow yourself... chambinho and some good licks, a quickie in the bathroom, a grip on the ass, a long tongue kiss and a whispered saying “I want you today when I get back!”. The possibilities are endless.

Obviously there are no magic formulas, but this is a way for those willing to make today a different day from tomorrow.

Hope this helps. Leave your comment here, telling me your infallible technique to get out of the routine.

Kisses on the ❤️‍????